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Yeah, one of those days where you wish you never existed, but.. heh life goes one, i had a hell of a break up today (no i don’t wanna go in details).

Go Away

Yes, its what you should do, because talking with others will just end up making you feel they are rubbing salt on the wound. Go hide yourself, cry, shout, scream, think, read and code. To Hell with others, you are now the sole master of your own life.

Make pros & cons list

..helps to bring out the frustration (though i may not entirely agree with that one.. as it will appear as if you are evaluating your old relation as if it was business).

Treat youself

Go out, have fun, drink, smoke, have fun (though i didn’t smoke.. i promised i won’t smoke, and i intend on keeping that), learn if learning is your passion, do something that you like, you need to forget the pain, i know iti s difficult to forget this pain, but try doing something evil (e.g deface a few websites while listening to some Black Sabbath/cannibal corpse/Craddle), but don’t fall into drugs or things which are dangerous to yourself, remember, you don’t wanna hurt yourself, life sucks, so to hell with life and the rest, live for yourself for some days.. turn selfish.

Change your routines

Definitely, after being with someone, you have a certain routine of life you don’t wanna change, but heh, try changing that, you don’t wanna remember your ex, because it will pain you, (personally i think, you wanna have a stoneheart for some time, it helps a lot, enfin i derive pleasure in doing harm when i am down, this works for me, try seeing what makes you happy and adapt your life to that) . E.g I have planned on learning unix network programming socket by the end of this week and get a good grasp of ajax by then of this week itself.

Therapy

If all else fails, find someone neutral about both your gf and you, (a psy maybe, though i fear psy… because i am psy phobiac.)

Anywayz, i summarized that from here : http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/77547/five_things_you_should_do_after_a_break.html?page=1

 ps. Remember that your ex is not the devil, because at some point of time she must have been someone good and nice for you to have been going out with her, don’t let this weak moment make you say things you will regret after… and do understand that for a break up to occur, mistakes may be from both sides, you can’t blame just the other, medidate on your mistakes before you start throwing stones at others.

pps. stay away, you don’t wanna hurt yourself.

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